Friday, January 3, 2014

Why is a divorce mediation preferable to a court case?

Divorce mediation is an out-of-court negotiation process in which a neutral mediator assists spouses to come to a divorce agreement that is acceptable to both parties. The job of mediator is to facilitate communication. He is different from a judge and an arbitrator, as he does not make decisions.

Although the mediator does not play the judge, the agreements you reach during the process can be legally binding.

There are many good reasons to prefer mediation than a court case. The following paragraphs introduce you to four of them:

Cost

   
If you live in Los California, hiring a divorce mediation lawyer is less expensive than paying several four- or five-digit checks to attorneys. A typical divorce case will cost both of you somewhere between $5,000 and $15,000. If you are finding yourself in a particularly nasty situation, the lawyer's bills can be more than $50,000; or even more. In comparison, people rarely pay more than $3,000 for professional mediation.
   
Time
   
Mediation is quicker. Couples hiring a mediator usually come to a settlement within 90 days. The average duration of a court settlement is around 15 months. Divorce mediation attorneys show you a quicker way to resolve cases.
   
Privacy
   
When your case goes into court, anyone can come and listen to it. Your privacy is compromised. It does not happen with private mediation, where all the details – custody issues, visitation issues, property division, and financial issues – about your case confidential. No person, other than you, your spouse, and the mediator, has information about your case.

Focus on negotiation

Mediation helps if you want to keep a relationship with your spouse – because of children or some other reason – after legal separation. Things can turn uncontrollably ugly in a court battle. A court case can lead to lasting grudges and ruin your chances to a peaceful life. Mediation is different. It lets you talk your mind out, to listen to the other person, and then take a decision. A court battle can turn into a loss/loss situation. In stark contrast, a skilful mediator can bring about a win/win situation for both of you.

The key thing in mediation is negotiation, not argument. There are more advantages of hiring a mediator over a lawyer than the four listed above. To learn more about the benefits, consider booking a session with South California lawyer Robert Gigliotti. Contact information can be found here: http://www.gigliottilalaw.com/contact/.

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